Ways to Deal with Selfish People Around you While Staying Away from Home
Life is the greatest teacher of all. After completion of all the charities that begin at home, there is a certain point of time when one stands under the nude sky of reality. From there onwards, the distinction between the good, the bad and the ugly gets determined. There is end number of people that we come across every day in our daily life.
Human psychology happens to be one of the most critical subjects of all and one has to rely on their own instincts and characteristics in order to deal with them. But one thing is for sure, that in most of the cases, expectation is often defeated by surprising activities of cruel practicality.
Different self-centric activities
With due course of time, one has to relocate from their comfort zone and adjust with people and situation, may it be studying in a hostel or abroad or even relocation due to job factors or may be any other reason.
In most instances, it has been observed that people who share their rooms for example in paying guest in Bangalore or any other place often have their own surprising experience from their room partners, may it be for whatever span of time they have are familiar to each other. In general cases, the nature of one is exposed within a certain span of time and the nature could be understood from small activities.
- There are certain people who like to hang out at their roommates or friends cost. They would accompany you, have dine and wine but when it comes to payment of money, they would always be empty. Such kind of people can be identified after 3-4 consecutive hangouts and their tendency of miserness or self centeredness creates a negative impact.
- Some roommates have the tendency to dominate their partner if they are soft in nature. For sure, the introvert one’s life becomes miserable day by day. They would try to dictate terms on small issues like the bed, food, clothing, and also even sometimes people whom the partner should associate with.
- Next is the insensible category. They have the tendency of taking their partner for granted and for them, whatever they do is justified. They could wake you up at midnight and ask for your mobile if they need to make a call and they do not have sufficient balance for the same. They could make you stand outside your room for hours if you forget to take the alternative key by mistake along with you.
- Things become all the more critical when it comes to working personnel. Both may have different shift timings and in many cases, it is found that while one returns from work and the other gets going. Deformity starts if one of them is insensible. He could play loud music when the other one may be doing some personal work or sleeping, ask for money and do not return the same in time, use roommates’ belongings etc. In a word, create a headache for the guy who tolerates all these nonsense.
The list of these self centric people and their activities are endless in all the way while living in a hostel or paying guest accomodation. The best way is to either shift the room with someone having the same frame of mind or stay alone.
This is because self company is far better than having a bad company. In order to avoid any further unwanted situations, one must try to avoid these problematic people or handle them in a philosophical manner so that both of them do not get a hard feeling.
Category: Personal Growth
